After awhile, you learn the difference, the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love does not mean leaning and company does not always mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses are not contracts and presents are not promises. And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and eyes ahead with the grace of an adult and not the grief of a child.
And learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn that sunshine burns if exposed for long. And you learn that no matter how much you care, some people just do not care ... And you accept that no matter how good a person, it will hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive her for that. You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain.
You discover that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it, and what you can do things in a moment of which you will regret for life. Learns that true friendship continues to grow, even over long distances. What matters is not what you have in life but who you have in life. And what good friends are the family that allows us to choose. You learn that we do not have to change friends if we understand that friends change, realizes that his best friend and you can do anything or nothing and have good times together.
You discover that the people you most care about in life are taken from you so quickly, so we must always leave loved ones with loving words, may be the last time we see them. You learn that the circumstances and environment influences us, but we are responsible for ourselves. Begins to learn that one should not compare yourself with others, but the best it can be. Discover that it takes a long time to become the person that wants to be, and that time is short. Learn that no matter where you have reached, but where you're going, but if you do not know where you're going, anywhere will do. Learn that either you control your actions or they will control, and that being flexible does not mean being weak or have no personality, for no matter how delicate and fragile the situation is, there are always two sides.
Learn that heroes are people who did what was necessary to facing the consequences. You learn that patience requires much practice. Discover that sometimes the person you expect to kick you when you fall is one of the few that help you get up.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the types of experiences you had and what you learned from them than with how many birthdays you have celebrated. Learn that there are more of your parents in you than you thought. Learn that you should never tell a child that dreams are silly, few things are as humiliating and would be a tragedy if she believed it.
You learn that when angry has the right to be angry, but that does not give you the right to be cruel. Realize that just because someone does not love you the way you want love does not mean that someone does not love, however they can, because there are people who love us, but just do not know how to show or live it.
Learning is not always enough to be forgiven by someone, sometimes you have to learn to forgive himself. Learn that with the same harshness you judge, you will be sentenced at some point. You learn that no matter how many pieces your heart was broken, the world does not stop for you to fix it. You learn that time is not something that can turn back.
So ... plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure ... You really are strong, and can go much farther than you think you can not anymore. And that life really has value and that you have value in life!
